Starting conversations with people whose health is deteriorating can be difficult and needs to be done sensitively, but it is very important.
Here are some tips on ways of getting started:
- What do you know about your health problems and what might happen in future?
- Some people worry about what will happen if they are less well – how do you feel about that?
- We would like to hear about anything that is particularly important to you or your family….
- Sometimes people want a family member or a close friend to make decisions for them if they get less well…Is that something you’d like to talk about?
- We hope you will stay well for a long time, but we are worried about what might happen if …
- It is hard to talk about getting less well, but I worry that if we don’t do that we will not be able to make good decisions about your care. What would be the best way for us to talk about this?
(Suggested questions from the SPICT website(external link))
Continuing professional development
Webinar: Tender conversations(external link) Dr Kathryn Mannix, Palliative Care Physician (Retired) and Best-selling author
About this presentation:
We all probably have a conversation we’re avoiding. It’s important, but it feels tricky. Often, we feel daunted by the strong emotions involved. We’re not sure how to begin, or whether we should try to. ‘Tender Conversations’ will consider the principles that help us to open, begin, continue and finish these important yet daunting conversations in a way that is helpful and safe.
You can watch the video, answer questions and claim hours with a certificate.
(My Health Hub, NZ, 2023)