Wairua

In te ao Māori (the Māori world) everything is connected. No one thing can be looked at without looking at the other things that affect or influence it.

A model of hauora (holistic wellbeing) commonly used in health is Te Whare Tapa Whā by Ta Mason Durie. He describes hauora as a whare (house) where 4 walls and a foundation are needed to provide a sturdy shelter. Each taha, or wall, shows an aspect of our wellbeing: 

• taha wairua (spiritual)
• taha hinengaro (mental and emotional)
• taha tinana (physical)
• taha whānau (family and social)
• whenua (the foundation) – your whakapapa, connections, environment, places you belong, your culture and identity.

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Wairua is personal for every person. There's no right or wrong way to feel or think about our wairua. It can be about your relationship with nature, people and culture. It could be your whakapapa (whānau connection) in the past, present or future. Your wairua can be who and what your are, where you have come form and where you are going. It could also be how you show up in the world, or how you see yourself. 

For some people, wairua is also about faith or religious beliefs. This includes belief in a higher power, or an internal connection to the universe.

We encourage you to think about what wairua means to you personally and the things you might do to uplift your wairua.

Paying attention to your wairua is  as important as taking care of the other aspects of your health and wellbeing. A person’s wairua is best supported by thinking about all the things that make us feel happy, healthy and content. In other words, a holistic and connected approach. Read more about finding the balance.(external link)(external link)

Feeling comfortable in your identity, values and beliefs, helps you to feel secure in who you are and what you stand for. When you are content within yourself you can cope better with challenges, build strong whānau relationships and discover things that uplift you. Nourishing your wairua might be described as ‘feeding your soul’ or feeling a deep sense of fulfilment.

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If you or someone in your home is sick, you may need to isolate, which may take you away from the people, places and activities that support your wairua. Being online may not be your chosen way of staying in touch but it’s important that you do, so try to think of other ways you can stay in touch with friends and whānau. You could pick up the phone, write a letter, or arrange a group Zoom or Whatsapp.

Even if you don’t ever get COVID-19, we’ve all been living through a difficult time since 2020, with lockdowns and many limits we’re not used to having. The effect of this can build up over time.

• Stay connected to people.
• Explore your own culture or language.
• Find creative ways to do things differently.
• Learn what nourishes your soul.
• Attend to the small things.
• Reach out to help others.
• Journalling, drawing, mediation, yoga.
• Get help when needed.

Here's a list of all sorts of ways you can take care of yourself.(external link)(external link)

Your church, marae, temple, mosque or synagogue offers spiritual support, as well as community and practical help. Support from whānau and friends who understand what you're coping with (as they are too) is really important. So reach out and let people know how you are feeling and you can support each other.

Here's some links to churches for specific community groups in Auckland:

• Auckland Rainbow Community Church(external link)(external link) 
• Pacific Islander's Presbyterian Church Newton(external link)(external link) 2 Edinburgh St, Newton, Auckland 1010, (09) 379 7692
• Te Karaiti Te Pou Herenga Waka(external link)(external link) 35A Cape Road, Māngere, Auckland 2022 
• Auckland Māori Seventh Day Adventist Church, 71 Skipton St, Māngere East, Auckland 2024, (09) 277 7433
• Church of the Holy Sepulchre – Te Mihana Māori, 2 Burleigh Street, Grafton, Auckland 1023, (09) 377 5400
• Otara Samoan Assembly of God 32 Kerwin Ave, East Tāmaki, Auckland 2013, (09) 274 5500
• Assembly of God Church of Samoa Mangere, 36 Freda Place, Favona, Auckland, 2024
• Assembly of God Church of Samoa Mt Wellington, 11 Lolim Plcae, Favona, Auckland 2024, 021 117 3274. 

If you ever feel you're not coping, it's important to talk with a trained health professional.

Helplines

• Need to talk? (1737– free call or text) 
• The Depression Helpline (0800 111 757) 757 or free text 4202 
• Healthline (0800 611 116)
• Youthline (0800 376 633)
• The Lowdown Text 5626 for support to help young people recognise and understand depression or anxiety.
• Alcohol Drug Helpline (0800 787 797)

Digital tools

• Groov(external link)(external link) is an app you can use to monitor, manage and improve your mental wellbeing.
• Small Steps(external link)(external link) help you maintain wellness, find relief, or get help for yourself, friends or whānau
• HABITs Messenger – (including Aroha Chatbot) a uniquely New Zealand chatbot app designed for young people.
• Triple P Online(external link)(external link) online parenting support.